By Charlene M. Brown
Hey Beautiful! Yes, you! We all have a little Diva in us. For some of us, she is closer to the surface than others. Here are some style tips that are simple and flattering (and tasteful too!), and can fit your Diva, wherever/whoever she is.
~Start with sexy underwear—Ladies, don’t underestimate the power of your undies. Now, it doesn’t have to be a lacy thong (unless of course, that’s your thing 
), but go out and find you a few pair of underwear, let’s say 5 to start, that bring out your inner Diva. Find something that makes you feel flirty and fun, something that is not already in your cache. There are so many different kinds of underwear these days you have plenty to choose from. There are bikini cut, boy cut, low rise, hi-cut, lace, silk, you name it, there is probably underwear to match. If your inner Diva is racy, you can always check out a classic place like Victoria’s Secret or Fredericks of Hollywood, but also check out your local Hanes/Bali/Playtex store for more everyday goodies (but we are not talking about those here!). And of course, you can always go to a specialty shop (check the phone book or internet or ask a friend for locations).
~Find a bra that fits you properly—Don’t underestimate this one either. Anywhere from 68 to 80% of women are not wearing the right bra size. While you are looking for your flirty undies, all of the associates in that store will very likely have a tape measure around their necks (or somewhere nearby). Ask one of them to measure you. You’d be surprised at how much discomfort can be alleviated by wearing the right size bra. When purchasing a bra, look at it without a shirt and with one on too. The right fit can appear to discreetly enhance (or minimize) your bust line, ease back and shoulder pain, and just generally make you feel better. Bras can be a little pricey, but a good bra is a good investment. Don’t be afraid to pick out something sexy to match the sexy underwear you just bought! And ask questions! A good sales associate will help you find answers to many of your questions. One more thing, when you pick out a bra, pick out one that you like looking at; it will make all the difference in the world. For fun commentary on bra sizes, check out Wedding Bee.com.
~ Bra Straps that Show?—Not only is the right bra important, but having the right bra straps that keep you comfortable and don’t make you feel self-conscious also have everything to do with being a Sexy Mama! Women with a larger bust often prefer having wider straps that offer more support and may have a slight cushion. Because women’s clothing is made in so many different ways, sometimes seeing our bra straps can be a real downer on a cute outfit. I found something that changes the game of all of that—decorative bra straps that actually enhance your outfit. I suggest Strappy’s, which come in all different textures and designs to make any outfit sparkle (sometimes literally).
~Makeup—Makeup’s job is to enhance your natural beauty; it can be subtle or dramatic, depending on its use. Stage and performance makeup is always over the top because of the funny things stage lights can do to your face. Everyday makeup, however, should be much more subtle. You want to highlight the most expressive or defined part of your face. Makeup showcases what you want to draw attention to, like, perhaps, your penetrating brown eyes or your enigmatic smile, or your fabulous cheekbones or wonderfully full lips. Letting makeup do its job means not doing such a job with your makeup!
~Have at least one outfit that fits you really well and accents or highlights the parts of your body that you like. Ladies! You need at least one pair of jeans, slacks, or a skirt that really fits you well, and at least one shirt or blouse to go with it. As women, we are shaped in every way imaginable. Some of us haves hips that could birth a nation, some of us have porn-star sized busts, some of us have swimmers shoulders and some of us are petite all over. Whatever your shape, there are clothes that fit you. The idea is to play up your shape—get some help if you need it. Check out your local department store or fashionista girlfriend. Know your assets and how to show them off in flattering ways, but know that they are all beautiful no matter what they look like! Make sure you feel like one hot tamale (that’s Spanish for Sexy Mama—well, not really 
) in your outfit!
~Get a mani and or a pedi—For some women this is a necessity already. For many of us, however, it is not. This is my suggestion: Treat Yourself to one or both in the next month! You will be amazed at how good you will feel by just this one little act of pampering! And there is just something about having your nails painted that makes you feel wonderful. I suggest that you try a Day Spa that offers this as one of its services. It is well worth the trip!
~Smile and Laugh often—People enjoy laughter and people enjoy seeing other people smile. Smile when you say hello. Smile when you pick up the phone. Brightening other people’s day has a way of brightening yours. Laughter is one of my favorite pastimes. Smile at yourself in the mirror. Tell yourself how beautiful and wonderful you are. Keep telling yourself until you believe it. Then tell other people how beautiful and wonderful they are. Then tell yourself some more!
While most of these tips focus on external factors, the real truth of the matter is: if you feel beautiful and sexy and fabulous inside, that beauty and sexiness and fabulousness will radiate outwards. Believe me, you are absolutely Beautiful and Sexy and Fabulous! I know it, now it’s time for you to know it!
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