By Charlene M. Brown
If I could tell you one thing that could genuinely improve your life, what do you think it would be!? Love? Marriage? Having Kids? Winning a kabillion dollars? Nope! The one thing that could genuinely improve your life is . . . . to . . . . SMILE MORE OFTEN.
Now I know that sounds really, really, really simple, but it definitely works. I’m not talking a fake, overly sweet smile. I’m talking about a genuine smile or laugh that comes from somewhere pleasant inside you. (I know she’s in there somewhere!) Start that process by watching a funny movie or reading a funny book (My recommendation is to read any of Janet Evanovich’s numbered Stephanie Plum novels—and I recommend them so many times, I should be the official spokesperson!). Get into the habit of finding one funny thing to read or see per week.
Not only is laughter contagious, but it is appealing also. Think about it, who would you rather be around on a regular basis (by choice), a Gloomy Gustine or a Fabulous Frannie? And when it comes to dating (if that’s what you seek), think about who you are attracted to—is it the person who is always super serious, or the one who likes to have fun and makes you laugh? I’m willing to bet you chose the fun-lover both times.
Now, let me let in on a little secret: you will attract those people who mirror you. If you like to laugh and have fun, you will draw people to you who also like to laugh and enjoy themselves. And as an added bonus, laughter can soften the features on your face, making you look younger. Laughter also makes you glow! There is no downside. At least that’s what I observe from coming into contact with thousands of people.
This is by no means a downplay of serious times in your life or the lives of those around you. But I ask you to remember that Life is ever-changing, and everything in it is Temporary. Life, in general, is not that serious. Lighten up! Stop thinking the world is going to collapse every time you move. It’s not! (Or at least it hasn’t yet, wink!) Laughter will loosen some of this tight stuff buried inside you. You’ll be amazed at how sexy you really are when you allow it to shine through!
Do You Love Your Laughter-filled Life Now!? I Do!!
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