Look Around First!

posted by Charli
July 15, 2010

Lovin’ Life Now! Newsletter

Volume I, Issue 31: Look Around First!

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This Issue is prepared especially for you!

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In this Issue:

1.      Welcome!

2.      Look Around First! (Featured Article)

3.      Announcements/Offers

4.      About Lovin’ Life Now Weekly Newsletter

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1)      Welcome to this issue of our Lovin’ Life Now! weekly newsletter.  A special hello to you if you are receiving this for the first time. Feel free to pass this on to anyone you think might be interested in it.

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2) Look Around First!

By Charlene M Brown

Your surroundings are a reflection of you.  They are literally your thoughts pushed out!

That is the lesson for this week.  I looked around me and realized that though I complain about them, I am contributing to my surroundings.  I can look at my neighbors and know how much money I make, approximately what my habits are, and a rough estimate of what my beliefs are.

Try it; it will amaze you how accurate this is.

And it will also amaze you that these surroundings are the fulfillment of very subconscious thoughts.

Do you complain that your neighbors do something too much, say “drink too much”, for example?  This is a deeply seeded superiority complex (that we all have in some way or another, that we are somehow “better” than some other class of people).

Despite that we know more effective ways, most of us still have the need to be the queen of the monkey bars in certain situations.  So in some aspect of our lives we surround ourselves with people who are “less good” at the monkey bars than we are.

Or we take the opposite approach and suffer from what I call the “Woe is Me” syndrome (WiMS), where we play the perpetual victim.  And it’s always someone else’s fault, without US taking responsibility for anything.  And we continually attract those people and situations that will reinforce exactly what we think about ourselves.

Unfortunately this is true, even for the worst of situations, or rather especially for the worst of situations.  This means that abused people already don’t feel like they are worth much and they attract abusers who will reinforce that message over and over again.

However, the converse is also true.  When we feel great about ourselves, we will attract people and circumstances that make us feel great!

Look at your neighbors.  What are their complaints about life in general.  Do they say they don’t make enough money?  I’ll bet you either feel the same (underpaid), or the exact opposite: that you make plenty of money and have some unconscious need to always make more money than the people around you.

Who is the most forward thinking person you know?  How about the most open minded?  How much time do you actually spend with them each week?  Do they become tiresome or their ideas irksome after a while?  I’d bet they do if you really think about.

And that’s probably because ya’ll are not on the same wavelength most of the time (that’s why they are forward-thinking or open minded to you!).

So take a look around you and figure out what subconscious need you are fulfilling.  Then ask yourself, “Is this serving me?”  Your answers will astound you!

As Always, I have BIG Hugs to GIVE,

~Charli B.

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Charlene Brown started You Can Love Your Life Now!.com in order to assist women in finding their True Purpose and living the life of their dreams. Go to www.YouCanLoveYourLifeNow.com for more information and to download her free e-book True Happiness by 35: The 11 Steps to Get You There!
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