By Charlene M Brown
The first time another Woman called me Queen and meant it not for her gain, but for my empowerment—that was a defining moment for me! I had never been addressed like that before!
There was a real sense of camaraderie—something I had never experienced before—a feeling of being WOMAN! It was great!
I read a lot! Out of all the many books, articles and teachings I have read, one conclusion that I have seen again and again is that in this great big old world, there is ENOUGH FOR EVERYONE!
Women helping women is one of the best ways to spend your time. (This is nothing against the men-folk, but men support each other differently than women do.)
In general, ladies, we are nurturers. We provide words of encouragement and praise. We give great hugs, and often have this sense of Knowing (whatever it is)!
But we need support too! We need encouragement too.
So to all of my Queens out there reading this, go tell another Woman how fabulous she is. Tell her what a great job she is doing being her wonderful Woman-Self.
In fact, add that into your daily schedule—tell at least one Woman a day about her fabulousness.
It might be something she’s wearing, or her kind way with people, or it might be the appreciation that she always has delicious chocolates on her desk for all to enjoy, or perhaps that she is doing a fantastic job of being a first-time Mommy.
Whatever it is, make it a point to let her know about it. At least once a day—the more the merrier!
You can tell complete strangers or people you see every day. Tell your bus driver that you love her smile. Or your dentist that you appreciate her gentle way with your teeth.
Again, I am not dismissing the men. Compliments from men are great. But compliments from one woman to another are extra special.
Someone says: “A candle loses nothing in lighting another candle.”
So go light candles inside people wherever you are.
What would happen if we all were shining brightly!?
What would happen if we greeted each other with compliments and kindness!?
What would happen if we showed our Gratitude for the Humanity!?
What would happen if we shared smiles and pats on the backs instead of malicious gossip!?
What would happen if “Please” and “THANK YOU” became a resounding chorus!?
The Wonderfulness is endless!
So Ladies, here is your task: Go let at least one woman know that she is Fabulous. Do this today, tomorrow, the day after that, and the one after that, then repeat!
Be Fabulous, Sexy Lady!
Do You Love Your Life Now!? YES!!!!
P.S. For another great way to do this, check out Operation Beautiful!
Related posts:
- Charlie’s Angels, Kept Women, and Buying Your Own Drinks
- Oprah, Chris Rock and Good Hair: What A Combo!
- Becoming The You You Want to Be: Be Your Own Renaissance Woman!
- Change Your Mind: It’s Okay!
- F.E.A.R. 10.0
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December 7th, 2009 at 5:23 am
This was right on time for me…
December 7th, 2009 at 10:58 pm
And you are even mentioned in it!
December 9th, 2009 at 6:26 pm
yeah, I figured that was me. Thanks Charli, I think I deserve another sweet potato pie, I mean salad…
December 9th, 2009 at 9:26 pm
LOL–this made me laugh so hard. As long as I don’t have t set up and break down the stroller, we can definitely arrange sweet potato pie! You DO deserve it!