By Charlene M Brown
Being is a good relationship is a great feeling. Awhile back I made the case for being single. In the spirit of balance, here I am making the case for being un-single (lol), for being in a great relationship!
Here are 7 Reasons Why!
1. You have a built-in date. When you need a companion for a dinner, or even just for the holiday party at the office, having a partner means you don’t have to go looking for a date! There is no trying to cajole or convince your best guy friend to tag along, or convince your sister or one of your girlfriends that this would mean a lot if she went with you!
2. The companionship. With a partner, you have someone to talk to, plan and grow with, not to mention cold winter night cuddling. When this is in a healthy state, these things are wonderful.
3. Having someone outside yourself to “Know.” Diversity of perspective is good. You don’t have to always agree with your partner, but it is healthy to know that there is a meaningful world outside your Self. Of course, you will probably agree on most basic things, but having another person to do something a different way is healthy (even though it may sometimes drive you crazy). Learning to live with someone outside your family helps you to grow as a person, it makes your world a little less ego-centric.
4. Always having a ride to the airport or train station. I know this seems trivial, but I cannot tell you the number of times I had to scrounge around for someone to take me to the airport or pick me up from the train station. A good partner will usually work around your schedule to make sure these little things are met. Of course occasionally, she might have a huge proposal to launch on the same do you get back from your cousin’s place, but usually your mate is the one who meets you. This is also about all of the little things that you learn to appreciate about your mate!
5. Shared home responsibilities. Back in the 1950’s this was the very rare exception. However, most folks under 30 who cohabitate today share at least some part of household responsibilities. This can be cooking, and cleaning, but it can also spread out into pet or child care. Ladies—If you get a man who enjoys cooking, let him do it! Gentlemen—Cooking for your Lady will always earn you brownie points which can probably be redeemed at some later time! 
6. Economics. Two incomes are better than one. There is absolutely something to be said for not having to foot all the bills by yourself. From food and grocery bills to rent or mortgages. With multiple incomes, you can even opt for a higher end place because you can afford it when you wouldn’t have been able to by yourself.
7. The SEX. If this is not one the best perks of being in a relationship, I don’t know what is. Not only is the desire there and someone to always meet it (if your partner doesn’t like this aspect, or isn’t willing to meet it, you need to think about this one long and hard—ha! Pun wasn’t initially intended, but it is now! ), but with a steady partner, you have someone you can grow with and express your desires to. If your sexual needs are not being met, talking to your partner away from the bedroom can often spice this right up.
So there you are. Balance is key! To see the case for being single, check out the Part I.
Do You Love Your Life Now!? I Do!
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- Single vs. Relationshiped: The Argument for Balance
- Go! Date Your Self!
- Do Unto Others
- The Common Denominator!
- On Relationships!
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